Selflessness

P 3282 Live dead!

/ DVH

“Since Christ, though innocent, suffered in His flesh for you, now you also must be a prepared soldier, having the same mind-set, for whoever has died in his body is done with sin. So live the rest of your earthly life no longer concerned with human desires but consumed with what brings pleasure to God.” 1 Peter 4:1-2.

It is good to ask ourselves questions about our own reactions. The thing I have learnt is that you can think you have utterly surrendered to the Lord, and you only want to live for His will — then suddenly something unexpected happens and things that you didn’t know were inside, pop up like daisies! My advice is this, don’t excuse your behaviour, pay prayerful attention to it. Making excuses gives us a back door out of personal growth. It stops us discovering the real issues. These issues are far more likely to be about us, than others. We can make other people’s lives a living hell by refusing to confront our own inner attitudes.

When life stays on a pretty even keel, we begin to understand the normal day by day pressures, and we learn to manage them, by yielding to the Lord, and watching Him do the miraculous on our behalf. But it becomes easy to dismiss some not-so-great attitudes we have as …”that’s just who I am. It’s normal for me.” Ignoring the fact that we have a new normal now, and it isn’t based on our individuality, it is whether we look like Jesus, inside and out.

What comes out under pressure? Love, or temper, and impatience, or a distinct lack of mercy etc. What happens if it is your kid suddenly being bullied at school? satan knows that we will lean on the Holy Spirit to manage stuff coming at us, but what if trouble hits your kids, or your parents, or your friends? Maybe your spouse has to take a pay-cut, or even lose their job. Who are we then? I learnt many years ago, the yardstick we use to measure things must be based on the Word, not on our feelings, or our personal coping skills. The place of equality for all is in Christ Jesus, it is not in our ability to make nice noises under pressure.

For a number of years, Christians clung to what we believed about a group of wonderful verses that tickled our ears and made us feel good about ourselves. Sadly, I believe that has led to a distinct lack of adulthood in the Body of Christ. Pastors are often so busy trying to wipe adult noses, and soothe adult bumps and scrapes, plus sort out their life issues, that they have very little time to do what the Lord wants them to do! The way to maturity is through selflessness.

Years ago, I was a latch-key kid I got into all kinds of mischief because there was no parental eye on me. I was reduced to what I could get away with, rather than what was required of me. Not a good place to be. I realised I could out-think the person in charge and go around the rules! That is not obedience, it is evasion, half-truths and deception. Who are we when nobody is looking over our shoulder? 

Our new life is a new way to live not just a theme. The other day I spoke a little bit about money. I think most people don’t like it very much when money comes into the picture — however, the truth is dead people don’t own their money anymore. When we give everything we have to the Lord, He takes it and that includes the things WE think WE own.

Let’s be clear. This life we are living flows directly against our old one. And we are more familiar with the old way of thinking than the new. Some dear people don’t last, because they give up too soon. The cares, worries and struggles of this world overtake them.The best news ever is that we are NEVER alone! The Holy Spirit is a brilliant strategist and leader, we simply follow His Ways by reading the bible and applying what we’ve read, with His help, into our own lives. Plus we obey His inward checks and prompts. 

Initially that can be scary. But this also is how we find out, for ourselves, that we don’t like apologising, or looking like a daft goose. Human beings don’t like making mistakes or even having them pointed out – the old life rises up within us. We are always going need the Holy Spirit’s help – we can’t do this alone. But He’s not a tap we can turn off or on. He’s a Person! Let’s learn to live in such a way, that we are not distancing ourselves from Him. 

As we let go of the reins and allow Him to guide us through the potholes and bumps, He becomes the driver in my life, and I get to sit in the car as a passenger. But some days I really do think I belong in the boot! Soldiers are trained to obey orders, and as we learn to be obedient and cherish the Lord’s will, we are dethroning the whole me, mine, myself and I, mindset. Most people don’t drift away from faith because they hate the Lord — instead they drift away on a sea of careless indifference, aimlessly floating along unaware they are being  influenced by the changing tides of this world around us.  

Living dead’ means we have chosen to exchange our old way of life for His Ways instead, our faith is in Jesus and it is progressive,  Bye. 👋

P 2102 What kind of soil are we working with?

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Mark 5:4-17 “Those tending the pigs, scared to death, bolted and told their story in town and country. Everyone wanted to see what had happened. They came up to Jesus and saw the madman sitting there wearing decent clothes and making sense, no longer a walking madhouse of a man. Those who had seen it told the others what had happened to the demon-possessed man and the pigs. At first they were in awe—and then they were upset, upset over the drowned pigs. They demanded that Jesus leave and not come back. …”

The people in this story were so ticked off about losing their pigs they sent the Lord Jesus Himself away! Imagine what they missed out on!!?? They could have had a revival on the spot! Isn’t it kind of sad, that the pigs mattered to the townspeople more than the actual person who needed deliverance? If that thought doesn’t convict us about missing the mark somewhere, then nothing will! 

Some times the lessons we need to learn from the Lord are about the way we view this life.It is not what you see, it is the WAY you see it. That frames everything. What that means is this, if whatever is going on, good or bad, is not important to us, then it is dismissed by us, because it won’t improve OUR lives. We end up tolerating or ignoring things, because we’ve rationalised what we believe, to suit our own world-view. Jesus was pretty clear about what His Heavenly Father’s world view was. People. People. People!! He didn’t seem to care much about personal happiness, instead He spent much more time preaching about personal sacrifice, love and faith. When we presume that our own ideas about comfort is all there is in this world – that hardly ever works out well for other people! 

When I think about this time we are living in – practically everything around us is more important than people! Obscure insects, sharks, koalas, plants, aeroplanes, electric cars, the environment, or even the need for a new road or tunnel – to mention a few things  – these things are regarded as being more essential than human beings! We conveniently forget about the people that Jesus died for, even while we are merrily celebrating HIS birthday. We have also forgotten the people who at this moment are being bombed, starved, frozen to death, tormented, ripped from their homes and families, as well as sold into slavery – world-wide. But that’s OK because we are supposed to be comfy in our own little lives! 😱 It’s time to start weeding and getting rid of rocks.

This life has been reduced to its supposed monetary value, and if you have no value, then apparently this world is better off without you. Unfortunately this kind of stuff has come from the sort of selfishness that has been allowed to reign everywhere. Selfishness produces lousy soil. Spiritual stuff will not grow in it. Human selfishness includes: “my own health and comfort, followed by my family, my friends and my job and my house and my car.” And we get quickly incensed if someone even implies we might sort-of-kind-of be selfish. 

SELFLESSNESS is so rare today, that it is reported by and commented on by the media! Like it is some kind of happy accident. We don’t expect people to be the best version of themselves any more.

As Christians we need to pray, read and DO the bible, and deliberately cultivate good soil in our lives so the weeds and rocks won’t choke the life out of God’s Word and His purposes. Those pig owners had terrible priorities… instead of rejoicing that a human being had been utterly restored, they got ticked off because they lost their livelihood. And yet Jesus sent this very man back to preach to the people who were angry about the drowned pigs! Sometimes I think that our view of the Lord’s kingdom is very badly skewed, especially by our own needs and preferences.

The type of ground or soil, in our hearts, is actually formed by our own choices. Listen to the Lord Jesus talk about the results of bad soil: “…some seed fell on stony ground .. some was choked by the cares of this world.” We simply can’t grow good stuff in bad soil. Any place we have not relinquished to the Lord, is a place where the enemy of our souls can stick his big toe on. And the other guy wants domination! The safest place for us to live is in the place of total relinquishment – then me, myself and I, fall off the list of priorities and we live to serve Him and do what He wants.

Our primary passion needs to be the will of God – that will give us good soil for His word to be planted in. 👋🏻