P3522 The Me He sees!

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The Lord is in the process of forming our true God-given character, the one He planned when He sent us here. Our bibles are filled with instructions that we need to personalise as we LET the Holy Spirit work on our hearts. Here are a couple:

Romans 12:17-18: “Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” 1 Corinthians 14:1 “Make love your great aim.” Ephesians 4:32. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

Have you ever known someone that was so closed off and unavailable, you could only access tiny pieces of them on a good day, if the wind happened to be blowing the right way? Sigh… me too! There are days when it feels like I have a collection of those people — the same way you would collect a bouquet of beautiful roses — only these people have giant thorns. They might smell gorgeous, but watch out!

Prickly people are the bane of my life, but, of course … “I’m not prickly … even a little bit!”. Back to everybody else … quickly! So, right now the Lord has me in the middle of a learning curve. I am learning not to try to please people, but to love them, icky and all, instead. Sometimes, it seems like there is no way I can live at peace with an angry person because they are always armed and ready to fight at the drop of a hat. Yet all I said was: “Hello, how are you?” And then I wished I hadn’t!

Later, when I was far, far away from that person, I chose to pray about it. I asked the Lord why things did not go well? I usually ask Him for appropriate scriptures, for clarity, just to make sure I haven’t floated away into the ether with the pixies. Then the Holy Spirit (He’s the One Who is working on ME remember?) reminded me of some scriptures. Let’s start with John 21:20-22: Jesus is explaining Peter’s future:  “ …Peter noticed him, (John) He asked Jesus, “Master, what’s going to happen to him?” (Jesus said) “:… What is that to you? YOU follow Me!” You know, it is OK for someone else to be God’s business, just bless them and move away. Maybe we should all clear up our own backyard first!

Here’s my second scripture: let’s look at Jonah, who gets very prickly at the Lord because all the Ninevites were saved and he’s not happy about it. Jonah 4:6-11. Jonah thought his enemies were also God’s enemies. He suffered from a wrong premise – and boy can I find those on a bad day! Jonah ended up hot, with a headache!  Father God needs to challenge all our wrong ideas, so we can truly be His kids in action.

Lastly, the Holy Spirit reminded me about Sarah. She found out that she’s going to have a baby … and she’s 90! She laughed. Well, who wouldn’t? Then Lord told her He heard her laugh, but she denied it. And He says this: “No, but you did laugh.” That’s when the penny dropped and I saw that God dealt with her as an individual. Even though we are a corporate identity, He sees each one of us as individuals and treats us accordingly. We will have different things to learn because we are all different parts of His body.

Maybe you and I will not be on the same page at the same time. But let’s always stick with Him! Remember the cute thought about the elephant? (See below) My view may not be the same as yours! Here’s another thought the Holy Spirit gave me – how are we ever going to see the many-sided, multifaceted wisdom of God if everyone is supposed to look the same? Any other people like me would be sooo scary!

The bible says that the Holy Spirit formed us inside our mother’s womb, and we know, that He has a way for each one of us to go. (Proverbs) This means we don’t have to be carbon copies of each other. Instead, we need to concentrate on LETTING the same mind be in us that Jesus had. That’s our fixed point — not the same behaviour but the same MIND that was in Jesus – in US. The mind that says, you are none of my business, and Jesus can save whoever He wants and do things the way He wants to.: “God’s will be done!” Thinking like He does will unify us all. Right about now I’m starting to feel convicted about picking on someone else.

I seem to slide into that logs and specks thingy Jesus talked about, and sadly thats the spot where my own errant attitude escapes me. That’s when the Holy Spirit reminded me none of us are done yet. I can’t find the real me OR the real you if all I can see is wood! (Matthew 7:1-5). We need to look at Jesus, not just each other’s faults. I can’t find the real me while I am taking notes on what is wrong with you! But when I take His loving acceptance in and give it out again, He becomes the yardstick, the plumb line, the example God Himself gave us and I can see better things for both of us.

He has given us the basic foundational tools that the Holy Spirit will apply into our lives – shaping and molding us into someone who is like Him, inside and out. Jesus even took the time to teach us how to please the Father! We do that by doing the Father’s will – John 4:34; believing in the Son – John 6:20; abiding in Him and loving others John 15:9-10; serving Him and others Matthew 6:33; and glorifying the Father 1 Corinthians 10:31.

We all have different learning curves. I try to share mine on this page. But at the bottom of my quest is the desire that each one of us would become ‘the real me that God meant me to be.’ I like to think about that process the way Michelangelo regarded a slab of marble. Someone asked him how he knew to cut the marble the way he did. He replied: “I see a picture in my head of a statue inside the block of marble and I just cut away everything that does not belong on that statue.”

This is what the Lord is doing right now in the Western world. He is cutting away everything that does not belong, to release the Me He knows I can be. Instead of my hardened heart toward you getting in the way. Let’s stop pretending to be holy and submit to the Holy Spirit’s Sculptor’s skill. He’s carved out mountains and valleys – He can fix us! Bye. 👋

P3521 Stay adaptable.

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“Now, even though I am free from obligations to others, I joyfully make myself a servant to all in order to win as many converts as possible. I became Jewish to the Jewish people in order to win them to the Messiah. I became like one under the law to gain the people who were stuck under the law, even though I myself am not under the law. And to those who are without the Jewish laws, I became like them, as one without the Jewish laws, in order to win them, although I’m not outside the law of God but under the law of Christ. I became “weak” to the weak to win the weak. I have adapted to the culture of every place I’ve gone so that I could more easily win people to Christ. I’ve done all this so that I would become God’s partner for the sake of the gospel.” 1 Corinthians 9:19-23 TPT.

This man of God’s chosen attitude was to be like a chameleon. No matter where he ended up, he was there for Jesus’ sake, to release Christ’s blessings toward others. So he put aside his own identity and preferences and adapted. He knew, firsthand, what being “In Christ Jesus” meant, and he chose to live in that world’s mess, because teaching people how to know Jesus was all that mattered to him. Paul knew where his real home was. It was wherever Jesus wanted him to be, for as long as the Lord wanted him to be there!

He had so identified with His Saviour’s will, that his affiliations and religion simply became another avenue of motivation to teach this man love. When they opposed him, he used that opportunity to learn how to love more deeply. Furthermore he deliberately laid aside his own strength, and this man was an expert in the law, in order to allow heaven itself to touch people. He chose to stay adaptable. Paul understood that his old life of preferences and loyalties were gone, now his first allegiance was to Christ and His cause, not to a country or a creed. Many times he ended up in prison, beaten by rods, stoned, and reviled, when he could have just as easily had the admiration of his peers. But now he stood up for Christ.

This is how we are to live now. The Lord knows that the people around us, who are in one kind of prison or another, need to hear about Jesus too. That kind of puts our fear of going to talk to the grumpy neighbours in a whole new light! Paul met plenty of grumpy people! Plus insulting people, arrogant people, ignorant people, and people who hated him, and his new beliefs. Just because we know the Saviour, that does not mean people are going to be thrilled to hear about Him.

Paul could do all these things because he did not rely upon his brilliant mind, or great strength of character, or dedication to a task – He relied upon what Christ did. When this man met Jesus, who he used to be died … on the spot! He stopped being Saul, which means — “asked for”, “prayed for”, or “borrowed.” And the moment God Himself addressed him, he became Paul — “small,” “humble,” “least,” or “little.” Paul knew reality when it hit him. Do we know reality? Or do we keep on trying to pray or excuse it away? Are we adaptable? The way forward is clear – we are to be like Jesus. Wherever the Lord puts us we’ve been sent to blossom and release the sweet fragrance of His love wherever we go.

And our faith needs to be more than a theory, because theories fall over under pressure. Lately it seems like many of us are … ‘under pressure’ … and I am not sure that is going to get any better any time soon. But we can use this time to get better at letting go and letting God.  Paul regarded serving our Father’s kingdom as his greatest privilege, and that meant that whatever happened to him didn’t matter. Hardship didn’t matter. Loss was irrelevant. “Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For His sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ.” ESV. Philippians 3:8.

If we want to see the Lord at work in our lives then we need to follow Jesus’ example, like Paul. His testimony was this –  even if he had nothing, he was rich because he had Jesus. We also need to regard this world’s privileges, trappings, adventures, recognition, assets etc. as nothing, when we compare it with the joy of knowing Jesus personally, intimately. We’ve been reborn into a better Kingdom where serving and cherishing those who are all around us, is a way of life.

The greater One lives in us so we can have fellowship together. Love is a magnificent equaliser. It’s theology goes beyond our wildest dreams! The Holy Spirit knows how and what we should say. I’ve learnt that He doesn’t need clever people … He needs available people. Just be available today and every day. I do whatever He gives me to do … today. If I’m sick, then I’m sick today, it may not go on all day, that is up to Him. I tell myself, “I can do this for the next minute, hour, day! Tomorrow ain’t here yet!” Don’t let the idea of tomorrow, cloud today. Live for Jesus today.

And don’t worry about what you are going to say to others –  just let love be the umpire. Pray for them. Paul knew how to live a fulfilling life rich in love. He simply stayed adaptable, and kept on falling in love with Jesus, over and over again. Wherever he landed, he preached Christ! A life lived for His sake is never wasted. Bye. 👋

P3520 Don’t forget to remember …

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“Have you forgotten that your body is now the sacred temple of the Spirit of Holiness, who lives in you? You don’t belong to yourself any longer, for the gift of God, the Holy Spirit, lives inside your sanctuary. You were God’s expensive purchase, paid for with tears of blood, so by all means, then, use your body to bring glory to God!” 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 TPT.

“Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honour God with your bodies.” AMP.

Whenever hubby and I are expecting a special guest, we tidy up here and there, preparing food etc. We want our guest to feel comfortable. This verse from Corinthians talks about the most special Guest any of us will ever be asked to host. The Holy Spirit. Because we are God’s people and we love the Spirit of God so much, let’s cherish everything He says to us – remember, we’ve chosen to live and make our lives His home.

The thing is, the Holy Spirit is not bossy, or pushy, or rude – instead, He’s the best kind of guest we will ever know. He’s so sweet and unobtrusive, we can accidentally ignore Him and His wishes. The more we get to know His Ways, the easier it becomes to give Him the key to every single part of our lives. But although we know He is utterly trustworthy — trusting Him, when we cannot see Him or see what He is doing, can be difficult sometimes. It takes faith.

People in the past have looked at verses like this one and they majored on what we need to do to make Him welcome. In my opinion, this attitude is still a bit short of a far better mark. There are things I would never do or say to my family because I know it would hurt them and our relationship. I think this verse is about that too. The marvel of knowing the Holy Spirit is that as we listen to Him speaking to us – when He says: “That’s not a good idea…”  or: “This attitude could hurt that person” … We don’t just get to know what He likes, we get to know Him. Obedience to His Word is the greatest privilege we have ever been given, because this kind of obedience is transformative.

The Holy Spirit made the world. There is nothing He does not know … except the hour, or day when Jesus will appear again — only the Father Himself knows that. BTW, this means that Holy Spirit and Jesus do not know this piece of information! (Matthew 24:36) Astonishing! So when Christians bubble along saying the Lord is nearly here, and this and that, I don’t pay any attention. If Jesus doesn’t know… then how the heck can I know? There are more important things I need to pay attention to. Like fostering relationships with others, and the most important thing of all — walking with the Holy Spirit so our Heavenly Father is glorified.

We dare not forget that the Holy Spirit is the One Jesus sent back to be with us. He’s the One Who knows us better than a spouse, friend, brother, father or mother. Or even … ourselves! Our inner thoughts can fool us into thinking we are something we are not! He’s the One Who knows how to win our enemies, so we can all fight our real enemy, together. I believe that, whether I am here to see it or not, one day we will discover that our enemies are not who we think they are. I think that’s why Jesus told us to love them, because Love prevails, it never fails!

The way we glorify God with our bodies is written down for us in Romans 12:1 GNT: “So then, my friends, because of God’s great mercy to us I appeal to you: Offer yourselves as a living sacrifice to God, dedicated to His service and pleasing to Him. This is the true worship that you should offer.” After Romans 12:1 comes Romans 12:2: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.”

First we present our bodies, then we renew our minds, and allow them to be washed and cleaned daily by the water of His word. BTW, this kind of washing takes effort. The Lord points something out and then we ask for His help to fix it! The Spirit Himself will teach us how to glorify God in our mortal bodies, but … we’ll probably have to die to self somewhere in there.

So read the bible, do what it says, and let it change your mind – about how “God” things work — because that stuff aids our digestion of His Words. We gave our lives to Him, so our body is now the new temple of God. Galatians 3:20: “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, Who loved me and gave Himself for me.”

Imagine the practicality of this! Before Jesus came to earth, the temple was in Jerusalem – unless you were born there, you had to travel to go there. Matthew 24:2; Mark 13:2; Luke 21:6. Because of Jesus, and what He did, now you and I have become God’s travelling temples. That’s a huge thought as well as an incredible privilege! As Christians we are destined to carry the Holy Spirit everywhere we go. That’s our birthright. The only thing that stops us is our ignorance. Other people don’t have to go looking for God, because if we become what we have been redeemed to become … the searching ones will see Him IN US.

WE are His temple. We are His Holy stones knit together and held together by His love. What is on the old temple’s site right now is merely a building! Let’s stop glorifying buildings, and start glorifying the One Who died for all of us, so we can begin to be a forever kind of building. Fighting over property lines, boundaries etc. is a waste of time because … people are Jesus’ true real estate. “Have you forgotten…???” … “Don’t you know….???” Let’s not ever forget to remember our part in God’s plans. Bye. 🙌

P 3519 There are two kinds of wisdom … 

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… heavenly and earthly. When I write this blog, my aim is not to have people agree with me. Instead my hope is to inspire others to talk to Him, as well as talk to each other. Pre-digested food doesn’t help our spiritual health. There is nothing like fresh manna daily. So we daily read His Word to get a glimpse into His wisdom! James himself mentions that there are two kinds of wisdom. That gives us the opportunity to look at the Lord’s wisdom carefully, so we can identify it.

James 3:17-18 TLB: “But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure and full of quiet gentleness. Then it is peace-loving and courteous. It allows discussion and is willing to yield to others; it is full of mercy and good deeds. It is wholehearted and straightforward and sincere. And those who are peacemakers will plant seeds of peace and reap a harvest of goodness.”

I know the bible seems to use an excess of words – descriptive ones and sometimes seemingly irrelevant ones. But I’ve found that every single word that comes from God’s heart, sweetly burrows its way into my heart and it will profit me – if I let it. It is so easy to look at the tasks that are in the book, and do them and think that’s that! But actually I think the Lord loves the communication between Him and us, far more than us gathering info, or doing tasks. To the Lord, us listening to Him, and us talking to Him, are just as important.

I truly believe we can be transformed by this simple daily interaction. The Lord’s unconditional love is life-changing. But unless we keep looking into the mirror of His Word, or we will end up going about our day forgetting what we actually look like! Even being near Him saturates us with His all-powerful love, wisdom and goodness – whether we feel something or not.

In order to partake of His wisdom we need to know what it looks like, and bless God, James is giving us a clear description of His wisdom. Sadly we all know what man’s wisdom looks like too, that stuff is everywhere. Books, TV, radio etc. When I turn the TV on, something or other blathers at me full volume, and my brain almost melts! But the Lord’s wisdom is so gentle, we can easily miss it. Yet we need to be able to identify it, or we will ignore what He is saying to us. He won’t force what He thinks on us, our involvement in this process is purely voluntary. He doesn’t want us to miss the truth in what He says when we hear it. This world is not like Him, and it is easy to see the difference.

The Lord’s wisdom is gentle, peaceable, pure, polite, not argumentative, and He loves peace. Our Father is kind and unobtrusive, we can ignore His voice when He calls us to Himself. It is easy to hide behind: “I don’t really feel like that today,” OR “I’ll catch up tomorrow … I’m busy Lord.” The verse in James shows me that He cares so much about my life, and my freedom. But He will not interrupt me, I will have to choose to ask Him to help me. And the result of Him speaking to me, will bring me peace, not turmoil.

The Lord doesn’t use a multitude of words, He speaks directly to the point. What He says is so powerful it produces incredible results. In Genesis our Father’s response to darkness was —-“Let there be light.” No waste of words there! On another occasion He said in Malachi to the Israelites; “Your words have wearied Me.” So rattling on, mouthing platitudes, pretending to relate to Him won’t impress Him – He would much rather we were honest.

Almighty God does not mind if I ask Him questions! I ask Him things all the time. I was raised around adults so getting a word into a discussion was pretty fraught with danger back then. Seven year old kids only think they are smart! But the Lord is not like that at all. He is quite happy to explain how things work. I literally never had a father, so talking to one is a really big deal to me. The ones I knew as a child were absent, scary and only saw me when I did something wrong — that didn’t help much.

But I have discovered that the Lord is always so kind to us even as we walk with Him. Because of these glimpses of His wisdom, we learn how incredibly inadequate human beings are. We may be great at stuff that is inspired by cleverness, but we are not good with the kind of purity He has. His goodness and wisdom are like flashes of lightning when we stumble across them. Because of that, I think that the worse kind of temptation we face is not necessarily sin…

Most of us want to avoid sin like the plague. but in my opinion the worst temptation we face all the time is the temptation to believe that He is not good and He won’t be good to us. When we take His goodness as our standard, then whatever happens cannot distract us. We know that He’s good, so what He does is good and pure, it is destined to transform us. Jesus Himself told us that He came here to give us abundant life! That’s our benchmark. Our Heavenly Father does not have any secret agendas. James clearly tells us here in this passage, that the Lord’s wisdom, is wholehearted, straightforward and sincere. And we have it in writing!

There are two kinds of wisdom, the wisdom that dazzles us with razzamatazz and the wisdom that comes down from above, from ‘the Father of lights.’ James 1:17. It illuminates Who He is and who we are to Him. Bye. 👋

P 3518 The key words … HE WILL!    

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“We all experience times of testing, which is normal for every human being. But God will be faithful to you. He will screen and filter the severity, nature, and timing of every test or trial you face so that you can bear it. And each test is an opportunity to trust Him more, for along with every trial God has provided for you a way of escape that will bring you out of it victoriously.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 TPT.

If we start out by deciding for ourselves that we know what is good for us, and then we look at how hard our testing times are — we will total miss the blessing of what this verse says. I know this stuff is hard, like you, I’m living through it! I like to think of verses like this one as a statement of fact – not just a guideline. Analysing how we feel, and the difficulties we are facing from our emotions or mind can be deceptive. We will miss the opportunity to take HIS WORD AS THE TRUTH. The Lord’s character is our reference point.

Despite how demanding our feelings and situations can be, our framework must be: “Thy word is truth!” Which means my framework/interpretation/opinion isn’t! When Almighty God says He will bring me through it, I need to choose to believe Him and now that becomes my focus. When what I see, in me, and my own life, contradicts what His Word says, I have a problem. My problem is that the Lord and I are no longer on the same page. Many times my own framework has influenced my thinking because of my history. And my thinking can be squirrelled up from previous experiences and difficulties in similar situations. I can have a wrong perception because I am not infallible..

Even if things look bad from the outside, or where I am standing, I need to cling to the fact that God Himself knows what is best for me. He is calling up something into my personhood that needs development. We can see this with many people in the Old Testament – what He told them to do did not seem right to them. The Lord is not trying to discourage anyone. but our God is a faith God. Everything He allows, does and says is good for us. We don’t get to choose what is good and what is not, because we are not capable of that kind of unprejudiced judgment.

Often, we don’t actually care about victory, we just want the bad bits to be over, and resolved …preferably in our favour! However, God works “EVERYTHING together for good for those who are called according to His purposes.” (Romans 8:28) Just because we can’t see the good, that does not mean it isn’t there! He has other people who can benefit from my momentary afflictions. I’ve been sick and in pain and gone to hospital because the Lord wanted me to minister to someone. We must stop thinking our lives are our own!

At other times we quite literally, can’t see past the end of our own noses, because circumstances are influencing our POV. Then logic kicks in and suddenly we are on one side of the fence and God’s Word is on the other … because I chose my own POV and now I am pouting. Pouting doesn’t work with Almighty God … read the book! I cannot begin to tell you how many times I’ve thought; “I’m not going to be able to do this,” And yet! Here I sit at half past seven in the morning still here. It didn’t kill me!

Here’s a really hard thought. What if we take His Word as the only truth there is and let Him discern what is good for us and what is not?! Maybe we actually don’t know what is good for us – especially spiritually speaking. Human beings don’t like pain, discomfort, inconvenience, and suffering, and so we do all we can to avoid it. What if we are avoiding God’s will for our lives, and fighting His will is using up the energy we are going to need to use our faith in His goodness instead?

I’ll just pause for a minute so you can recover.

I’ve had to learn to accept that God knows what is best for me, even when everything around me looks terrible. I’ve also learnt that He does not require me to love it when it hurts. But He definitely has a way for me to get through that pain, and if I YIELD to His greater wisdom, I will find that His way ‘works together for good for everybody’ – not just me! Yielding is the key.

Even agreement is not particularly helpful, because I can totally agree with something in principle but don’t act on it. When I yield – I am staking my life, my happiness, my well-being on His goodness. I am trusting Him, despite my own misgivings. Let’s just refresh our memory of Hebrews 11:6: “But without faith it is impossible to [walk with God and] please Him, for whoever comes [near] to God must [necessarily] believe that God exists and that He rewards those who [earnestly and diligently] seek Him.”

It seems to me that this verse is about more than simply asking Him for a parking spot! It is a way to live the new life He gave us. God exchanged His Son’s life for our sin – now we exchange our lives for His will.. If we want to walk with Him then we need to see His hand on us even in the traumatic awful bits. And if you are in pain, trouble, heartache right now let’s pray together. “Heavenly Father, please help my dear sister or brother to escape from whatever terrible situation they are in. Lord you promised us a way of escape. I’m joining my faith with theirs and asking you to please show them clearly their way out. You are a good good Father! Amen.”

Let’s remember that saying things won’t make them true, acting on it does. Folks we gotta get some skin in the game! The way to walk with Him and demonstrate His goodness is to act on what He says. What our God says is true, is true! I refuse to be moved, despite my current circumstances. His word is my plumb line. I know HE WILL HELP me, because He loves me and He’s a wonderful Father. Wait, just wait for the Lord. Bye. 👋.

P 3517 Love Himself will stand with us.

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(TPT)“God, I invite Your searching gaze into my heart. Examine me through and through; find out everything that may be hidden within me. Put me to the test and sift through all my anxious cares. See if there is any path of pain I’m walking on, and lead me back to your glorious, everlasting way— the path that brings me back to you.” Psalm 139:23-24. (NIV)“Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”

If I choose to evaluate what is good and what is bad in me — or my circumstances, or this world, or even … dare I say it, Almighty God Himself — this means I am defining things using my own reasoning, standards, thoughts and hopes. At some point I will need to remember that I am limited, which means my conclusions will be faulty. I need the Lord’s searching gaze all over my life because I can be self-deceived. That can happen so easily when what you hear the Lord say, disagrees with what you want to hear.

I have observed that there are some things in my own nature I simply do not want to see, so I will most likely hide them from myself, or worse … I will blame you for them! EG: “If you didn’t do this, then I wouldn’t have done that.” Some people call that passing the buck. The thing is in the middle of all that evasion we are missing the most incredibly important thing … we no longer have to hide from our sin! It was bought and paid for.

However, let’s not sit about planning our next nasty plot either! And we no longer have to hide. Hiding is a genetic trait we inherited from Adam and Eve. This is what the Lord, Himself says! “BUT … YOU are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a consecrated nation, a [special] people for God’s own possession, so that you may proclaim the excellencies [the wonderful deeds and virtues and perfections] of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvellous light.” 1 Peter 2:9.

Hiding implies we have something or someone to hide from – we don’t. We don’t have to live in that sinful unproductive place anymore. God Himself has seated us in heavenly places – and He bought and paid for our seats! If only we would stop thinking about this statement as some sort of elevated, coveted, arrogant place;  and start thinking about it simply as our God-given God-planned home. It’s the place we serve others from. So we can be transformed as we go about our daily living, loving others the same way He loves us.

Asking God to search our hearts is wisdom. Otherwise we will continue to move aimlessly on, hoping against hope, some how, in some way, we are pleasing God. But John 6:40 – “For this is the will of My Father, that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in Him will have eternal life.” Looking at Jesus intently and reverently, changes us. Let’s put that another way, what we behold we become. We please God when we believe in Him, and we read what He has said, and act on it. Then we are adding our yes to His Amen. Who would knowingly look at our suffering Saviour and be presumptuous?

We don’t have to be afraid to ask the Lord to search and try us, because He already gave His life for whatever is IN there. We no longer have to be ashamed of our malformed characters: Jesus knows it all and He loves us – because His love is not based on feelings it is based on His choice! He chose to come here and He chose to die for you and me. He took our shame on Himself, and set us free to be obedient children of Almighty God.

Paul said this to Timothy:“This is why I suffer as I do. Still, I am not ashamed; for I know Him [and I am personally acquainted with Him] Whom I have believed [with absolute trust and confidence in Him and in the truth of His deity], and I am persuaded [beyond any doubt] that He is able to guard that which I have entrusted to Him until that day [when I stand before Him].” 2 Timothy 1:12.

I don’t have to be afraid or ashamed anymore than Paul was, because I’m choosing to live persuaded! I read His Word, I trust what He says. Jesus is far greater than the ugly things I have done in my life, to myself or others. The only reason to hide from God is fear and shame. And our precious Saviour took them to the cross. When we go to the Lord and ask Him to search us, and look for any wicked way in us, we don’t have to be ashamed of our past sins. That sin was put on Christ. He hung there naked … that means nothing was hidden. Oh, if we would only understand what He did for us! Not just with our minds, but with our whole lives.

There is no fear in love … because Jesus’ love is so perfect. It minimises all the other kinds of love we cling to that are imperfect! Let’s stop expecting other people to supply what only God can give us — simply because it is more convenient to demand it from the people we can see. We are burdening each other by expecting perfection, but the Perfect One already did all the work. We can’t do anything to make Him accept us, because He did everything that was necessary in our place! Now we work out of love for Him and others.

I invite us all to regularly pray this prayer from Psalm 139 – because Love Himself will stand with us. And Love Himself will lead us on from the place where our hopes and dreams died, into a new place of His total love and acceptance. It is easy to forgive others when you realise what you have been freely given. Bye. 👋.

P 3516 Abiding.   

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Every now and then the pressure of a blank page stares at me and I want to bail out of writing this daily blog. I have been given an opportunity to abide. Two of the fruits of the Spirit are patience, and self-control, if I want to abide, I’m going to need both.

Abiding is one of those old-fashioned words nobody uses much anymore. It means: “To stay in a particular place, or to continue in a fixed state over time. Continuing for a long time or permanent (e.g., “an abiding friendship” or “abiding memory”). John 15:7 says: “If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you.” This verse reminds us we are never alone. He comes to us to stay within us. When His words stay, and live in our hearts, they become a part of our thinking, speaking and actions. They comfort and direct us and make us secure in His Love, daily.

Abiding is a place where we can allow the Lord to cultivate patience, self-control and spiritual restraint. Abiding is not really a buzz word today, because it implies the kind of stick-a-bility that is quite foreign in our busy gotta-be-gotta-do-gotta-go lives. We can pray we will have it, without a clue about how you get it. But the thing is, this grace is actually a necessity for spiritual survival. This verse is not just about praying for what we want – it is far more about cultivating a relationship centred on the Lord’s will, out of a desire to fulfil His mission for us, and through us.

I often think of stuff like ‘having patience’ as something I need the Lord’s help to do when things are very difficult — but today I realised that I need far more patience when nothing much is happening. When I am living with the same old, same old. So let’s start there…  because in most of our lives, one day often follows another fairly uneventfully, yet they are still filled with busyness. But sadly, nothing changes either.

Our lives can be like a desert with the occasional tumbleweed rolling over the screen of our minds. Not much spiritually happening! Then occasionally, there are those times when the stuff of life flies at us like the worst kind of blizzard, banking up at the door of our hearts … locking us in… And at yet other times problems just quietly drift in blurring and blocking our path ahead.

The lack of insight to make our way through these contrasting times can drive us crazy, but the never-ending silence can be worse. It quickly becomes the time we need to remind ourselves that we are not alone. We have Our Father, His Son and the precious Holy Spirit Who are always with us, even if we do not feel anything. And if we need someone with skin on … then we have brothers and sisters in Christ who will lovingly take the time out of their day to stop for a moment, listen and pray with us.

We learn to abide on ordinary days as ‘abiding’ faith becomes part of us. As we learn to live in His Love, and keep on sharing it – right in the middle of one day following the next. Let’s practice the kind of skills that will see us through the silence of ordinary days. By reading the bible, and prayerfully listening for what He wants to say to us, today. On those days we may have to seek His kingdom first. And take note of what we are saying. Let’s not give our enemy the opportunity to find out what is momentarily afflicting us.

These seemingly empty times give us an opportunity to cultivate self-control, and that leads to contented abiding. Of course it will take a whole lot of patience to do it. I ask the Lord to “set a watch over my mouth.” He will. All glory to Jesus! At the same time, He, Himself, has an endless supply of patience and He allows us to learn at our own rate! (Psalm 32:8) Let Him guide you through whatever comes at you, one step at a time. ”Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you, and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30.

Personally, some days, my own rate can be …kind of …slow. So I totally love this verse: “But  God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved—and raised us up with Him and seated us with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, …” Ephesians 2:4-6.

Almighty God Himself: His goodness, His mercy is already personally invested in our growth, and He wants to help us learn to abide in Him. Abiding means we are looking at this life from His perspective not ours. When we are seated in heavenly places, we get a different perspective. Think of it like this, I can stand outside my house and see how it looks from the street, or I can fly a drone over it and take a photograph of it from the air above the house. Same location – different perspective.

We need heavenly perspectives for those ordinary same-old same-old days, as well as the days when the roof falls in. Let’s choose to quit only having emergency faith! Abiding in Him fosters faith. Bye. 👋. Ps. Plus abiding produces that fruit in 1 Corinthians 13!

P 3515 The old person in your future.    

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Senior Christians can be a huge help in our churches, especially with advice to younger ones. The negative thing about growing older is that these very important senior citizens sometimes think: “let’s leave all the moving forward and work, to the younger ones.” And they just sit back and enjoy the ride. When we do this we are forgetting that younger people can lack patience, faithfulness, self-control and wisdom. Those fruits grow slowly! Older folks have it in spades, because life demands it. It beats you up then you need Jesus’ help to cope, over and over again. And … tada! Eventually, unless you are thick as a plank – you get wisdom!

Living longer presents people with all kinds of difficulties that aren’t apparent to those who are quite young or in middle age. These saints literally have to learn new things, or this life gets harder than your coping mechanisms! The truly great thing about age is that you don’t only get wisdom, you get loads of humility. ‘I can’t do that’ becomes the new norm. However, us oldies cannot afford to let it become a cop-out. I pick myself up daily when my mind has wandered about, and tell it “one more time, let’s go again.”

My point is that the Body of Christ needs its senior members. Packing them off into Old People’s homes means they can bore one another silly, or they will vegetise ← I made that word up! Don’t just let them clump about talking to each other. They need fresh input or they will get so bored with their circumstances that they tune out and wait for death. Now there’s a happy future. Everyone wants to wake up and wonder if they will die today! We may long to go to be with Jesus, (Paul did!) – but Jesus doesn’t always seem to be in a hurry to pick some of us up!

Sadly, some younger Christians don’t want to look at the fact that one day … in their not-so-distant-future, because-it-is-coming-at-you-faster-than-you-think … they too will be hobbling about on walking sticks, or stuck in wheelchairs, or dribbling their soup! Here’s a red hot clue for you … the only way to avoid old age is to DIE! … you see my point.

Having a sense of humour and being able to laugh at yourself helps. Especially when your bodily functions … UM … pardon me while I digress … what a laugh!! … “functions” literally means things work! Hmmm. Hey ho, your bodily functions will probably let you down. Repeatedly. And you will no longer go into the cupboard and forget what you went in for … you’ll probably forget you HAVE a cupboard, or a house. It isn’t just that you can no longer find your glasses, rather you no longer remember to wear them and wonder why the world’s gone blurry.

Back to the Body, Christ’s Body needs its senior citizens because they have loads of experience. Older people can look like naysayers sometimes, but they can also prevent others from falling down holes in their theology, because they recognise repeated scenery as it scrolls by. We’ve seen it before and it didn’t work then either! However, our minds do sometimes play tricks on us, producing the spirit of grumpy. That’s your chance to practice patience.

An elderly mind can wander about a bit as parts of it rust out, but because we are the Bride of Christ we are the people who have cultivated gentleness, kindness and love, so we won’t make older folks feel like fools. Instead we’ll use our wits to help them when they’ve lost theirs! Whether they sleep all day, or call out at night from fear — or get cranky for absolutely no reason other than old age — all that stuff is nasty, and often inevitable. Older people are still people that Jesus died for. Love is absolutely transferrable, so love will help them when its time to go be with Him.

When talking with an older person ask them about their past. Like… what was school like?  What were the things they loved to do in their youth?  Ask them how they met Jesus, how have they served Him? The thing I’ve noticed about youth is that they can quickly grow impatient when someone can’t find the right word instantly. Computers aren’t the only things that have speeded up. People have too.

This is what the bible says about age: Isaiah 46:4 – “Even to your old age and grey hairs I am He, I am He who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.” Psalm 71:9 – “Do not cast me off in the time of old age; do not forsake me when my strength fails.” Psalm 92:12-14 – “They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green.” 2 Corinthians 4:16 – “Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.”

We can learn all kind of important skills for this life from older people – things that education can’t and won’t teach you. They know so much about enduring faith and long-suffering, plus they are living proof of God’s faithfulness sustaining us, even unto our own old age. A church will have deep roots when those who are older are welcome.

Bye. 👋. PS As I grow older, I am often greatly comforted by the fact that Father God is called the Ancient of Days!

P 3514 Things we can do to grow our faith.

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Proverbs 11:25 TPT: “Those who live to bless others will have blessings heaped upon them, and the one who pours out his life to pour out blessings will be saturated with favour.” AMP: “The generous man [is a source of blessing and] shall be prosperous and enriched, And he who waters will himself be watered [reaping the generosity he has sown].”

Good morning! Let’s get into today’s thought …Hubby and I have been, financially speaking, living by God’s grace and allowing that life of giving to develop our faith for many years. We have learnt that this verse in Proverbs 11, in any version, is an excellent guideline. Using our faith and finances for the Lord’s purposes has stretched our faith in all kinds of directions.

I am mentioning this today because living by faith seems to be a huge step, and while many Christians aim at going to heaven, not quite so many aim at using their faith, here and now! Our faith can be suitably stretched and instructed when it comes to finances. Everything we have been given is for sharing with others….

So here we go again, with the same thought in four different verses. Habakkuk 2:4; Romans 1:17; Galatians 3:11; Hebrews 10:38: “But my righteous one will live by faith. And I take no pleasure in the one who shrinks back.” That verse is in the bible four times. Repetition means pay attention! I have said on a number of occasions that the most practical way to step up into living by faith is to give. Money helps us live, and giving by faith outside of our human limitations, as Jesus leads us, stretches our faith.

We’ve also met a number of quiet givers over the 20 or so years we’ve been travelling for Jesus and giving away bibles. They have taught us so much about giving! These brothers and sisters are rarely seen, they give in secret. Jesus loves that idea – it’s in Matthew 6:1-4. These undercover brothers and sisters support others and don’t care if they get recognition or not. They simply love to give and help, as they trust Jehovah Jireh to provide for them. The truth is hubby and I couldn’t possibly do what we do without givers … but this is not my reason for writing about this subject today. I am not looking for your money!

My point today is that giving … no matter how strapped for cash etc you are… is a fantastic learning curve when it comes to practising faith. Tithing is great …do it. The pastor needs to live somewhere, he kind of enjoys EATING … plus his family may need transportation. However, I’m talking about giving above the tithe, because it is a way to love others. Give sacrificially. It has helped our faith grow when we’ve given, even when we didn’t have any spare finances. Can I be honest? We’ve found that there never seems to be any spare money! When we give sacrificially our faith becomes costly, and giving provides a great opportunity to use it for other people’s good, and our faith to grow.

When I talk about this subject I have had all kinds of lovely people explain that they don’t live this way because they can’t give cheerfully. See 2 Corinthians 9:7. Boy what a cop out that is! My advice is that anyone can learn to whack a smile on their face, grit their teeth and give their money, time, and help to … the Lord Himself. ‘Whatsoever you do, do it as unto the Lord.‘ The people we help are not the end of the line, they are the means God uses to teach and train us. When we do things for them, we are doing it for Jesus.

Almighty God uses our finances to diagnose what is really important in our lives! Money, or even the lack of it, makes a terrible god. Our God is a generous God – we can’t out give Him. Father God fed ALL the Israelites supernaturally in the wilderness … not just some of them, or the ones that were more obedient. If we want to be like Him then we will also need to be a generous people, guided by the Holy Spirit, helping others.

Loads of lovely Christian people flunk this test. BTW, God tests us – it says so in James 1:2-4! He tests and disciplines us. Hebrews 12:5-6 and Proverbs 3:11-12. Yet another excruciatingly popular subject. Back to giving. Giving is like breathing air. It provides us with opportunities to grow our faith. If your faith is down in the dumps and you are longing for a breakthrough, start by blessing other people. When we do that we are acting like Jesus did in Mark 1:21-38. The Lord had little money, but this passage shows us what Jesus did with His time, over the course of just one day.

James 2:14-17 says this: “What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”

Yeah, I know, bring that up! This is what James advises us to do to exercise our faith. Let’s not practice dead faith by doing nothing! James is giving us good advice. Faith needs to be exercised or it flattens out and stops moving. My last point today is this: “without faith it is impossible to please God,” see Hebrews 11:6. So cultivating faith is a great asset that will help us in other areas, including pleasing our Heavenly Father.

We exercise our faith when we believe that He is, and He is a rewarder of those who diligently … did ya get that? … diligently seek Him. It has to be worked at. Sharing our finances is one of the things you and I can do to grow our faith. Bye. 👋.

P 3513 Eternity minded.  

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James 1:2-4: “Dear brothers, is your life full of difficulties and temptations? Then be happy, for when the way is rough, your patience has a chance to grow. So let it grow, and don’t try to squirm out of your problems. For when your patience is finally in full bloom, then you will be ready for anything, strong in character, full and complete.”

As you can see for yourself, God’s idea of Kingdom happiness does not look like this world’s idea of happiness. The whole idea of having the ability to be happy when life is full of difficulties and temptations, seems to be utterly ridiculous. But brother James has a different list of priorities than the ones we think we need to hold onto today! He’s following the way Jesus taught him. James’ mind, heart, emotions are all about what God wants, and he is seeking to grow the kind of graces we need everyday – eternal ones.

This is absolutely pure wisdom from above. Trying to maintain two points of view at the same time can unnecessarily complicate things. We can’t easily follow the Lord when one eye is obsessed with what’s going on and why, and the other is still trying to focus on Jesus. So we will need to learn to contend for our faith. Otherwise we’ll end up cross-eyed and bump into things and other people.

What James is saying is we cannot afford to focus our lives, our families, homes, energy, time and finances on anything else but our participation in God’s kingdom. We need to be singleminded. The Lord will take care of those things. James is teaching us how to live victoriously under horrible circumstances. As we obey Jesus’ instructions we will see, for ourselves, His power working in and through us, everywhere we go. Why? Because now we’ve learnt what faith in action looks like! Now we can identify the will of God in the middle of a storm. God’s kingdom is about how we live, not just ticking boxes.

Religion chokes spirituality – it instructs, orders, pats down, distracts and consumes us. Meanwhile, it’s good to remember that satan loves the word IF – he loves to drag in uncertainty. Father God has told us to do everything from faith and love, so we please Him when we make those two things our priority. He delivered us from the kind of slavery that ties us into knots by making the problem the priority, not love.

James is explaining that when our lives are in step with Jesus – and what He is doing – we will find our faith, our character, our inner man is enabled to stand up under trials or difficulties. Faith focusses on Him, not our circumstances. Jesus is in the eternal, He has an eternal POV. Now let’s take a quick look at Peter … Peter sank when his eyes went off Jesus, and onto his current circumstances. Big waves all around you can be a big distraction … ….huge!! But Peter’s adventure teaches us to keep our focus on the Lord.

Pray: “Help Lord, I’ve lost my focus, help me to get my eyes back on You.” When we stagger off and start looking at what is going wrong around us, that stuff will quickly fill our vision. We won’t be able to see anything else. Then our minds start searching about for solutions, because human beings don’t like feeling uncomfortable. Pray: “help!” That’s what Peter did. Actually that’s the perfectly abbreviated version!

It’s easy to lose sight of the Lord when the things around you get so huge it seems like you can’t see anything else. Change your prayer from “Why is this happening?” to “What are You doing here Lord, please help me to see it.” If the enemy can’t stop us from wanting to live our everyday lives for Jesus’ sake, then he will try to drown us with many problems and difficulties. Jesus has an eternal plan for those difficulties – He will use them to transform our lives. We need to be patient with ourselves, and faithfully turn back to our Source. Remember, we have His empowering life IN us.

We’ve chosen to build our house on the Rock. Remember, it’s harder and slower to build on rock, than it is on sand! But we have the Lord’s word that He will help us. Look at what He did with Peter. The Lord lifted him up when the man began to sink under the weight of his own fear. Then together they completed what Peter began on his own. Ask the Lord for His help.

James 1:5-8: “If you want to know what God wants you to do, ask Him, and He will gladly tell you, for He is always ready to give a bountiful supply of wisdom to all who ask Him;  He will not resent it. But when you ask Him, be sure that you really expect Him to tell you, for a doubtful mind will be as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind;  and every decision you then make will be uncertain, as you turn first this way and then that. If you don’t ask with faith, don’t expect the Lord to give you any solid answer.”

Don’t second guess yourself. What you begin in the Spirit must be completed in the Spirit. Repent if you need to, and return your focus to Him … His goodness, His love for you, His life in you, and what He willingly did and gave up for your sake. Otherwise we can become double-minded. Transformation is an eternal thing, so we need His help to get up and continue. We let go of the stuff we can see going on, and hold fast to Jesus’ faithfulness to get us through.

The saints of old knew about this concept. They used to sing: “Hold, to God’s unchanging hand. Build your hopes on things eternal … hold to God’s unchanging hand.” Nice place to say, bye for now. 👋.