Good plan

P 2988 I can’t cope Lord.

/ DVH

There are times where we feel we need to make a ‘good confession,’ and repeat some scripture or other, when life has knocked us down — or we will be failing Him, or betraying our faith. No pressure or anything! I’d like to momentarily call your attention to the Old Testament where real people grizzled their heads off!  There are also plenty of illustrations in the New.

Today I want to point out that the Psalmists talked a lot about their enemies flourishing, plus having to hang around with wicked people, and their souls being tormented etc. So did the prophets. It is not a sin if you cannot cope! It is a sign of our own humanity. None of us are perfected yet, we are on a road with Him, learning as we go. We have the benefit of the bible, and the Holy Spirit telling us to ‘put our foot here, and put our foot there.’  And on many days we are walking up a very slippery slope. Without Him we would slip away. Overcoming is not just about having a positive outlook. Overcoming is getting up again, soaked to the skin by our own tears, covered in other people’s filth, or our own … and taking yet another trembling step.

The Holy Spirit is incredible. He can be in Dubai comforting someone, and in Tasmania comforting someone else etc. – all at the same time! He’s everywhere – because He is needed everywhere.There are some places that are so deep, so fraught with despair, that only Jesus Himself understands them. Other people can only look on in horror at our suffering. The Holy Spirit gives us Christ’s own words to shed light at these times when others are on the darkest of paths. But that does not mean the path is not painful. We cannot psyche ourselves into thinking evil to be ignored and pretend we are fine. That’s Disney – not the GOSPEL! God’s glory in these situations, is that these dear people keep on following HIM, trembling, walking on in naked bleeding faith.

In my limited experience, sensitive souls are often fighting off oppression through no fault of their own. If we are not careful we will end up developing a ‘Cone of Silence’ …thank you, Maxwell Smart! That spy loved that stupid thing … but it never did work properly!! Moving on …the bible is full of people who felt that what God asked them to do was bigger than they were. Starting with Moses, who pushed his younger brother into the firing line.  Whizzing right past Abraham – who tried to help God out because the Lord was taking His own time.  

Sometimes the “silence of God” can lead to not coping, and that is where we need our Christian families. Not to labour the point, but the other day I mentioned Ecclesiastes 3 — where not coping is clearly legitimised. God has allowed us time to walk through the valley of the shadow of death. That valley can be the death of a loved one, the death of a dream or the death of greatly needed relationship or position. 

Almighty God Himself chose to become human, so now He has a personal understanding of the result of pain in human lives.  Jesus stands next to His throne, praying for us as we walk through those valleys and He doesn’t have a stop watch on us! He has a big staff in His hands so He can clobber our enemies, not us!  We must always remember the compassion that Jesus had for people in all kinds of trouble, some of it self-inflicted.

There is no right way to suffer:“For I consider [from the standpoint of faith] that the sufferings of the present life are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is about to be revealed to us and in us!” Romans 8:18. God has a plan – it’s a good plan – because He is a good God. Jesus told us that we would have trials, He said this to give us heart, as we wade through evil times and circumstances. What He said is meant to be a comfort, because He is there with us. John 16:33. “These things I have spoken unto you, that IN ME ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.” HE WON!! That’s all we need to know, and sometimes it’s all we can handle.

It is mean-spirited to judge and sentence others about their inability to handle any kind of pain. What someone else can blissfully sail through, might bring my life to a screeching halt. Compassion is a real word, and it is lacking in the body of Christ today. “When He (Jesus) saw the crowds, He had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” Matthew 9:36. And compassion is not just the ability to say: “Oh, I am so sorry that happened to you,” sincerely. That’s a good beginning, but it is not the whole story. 

Compassion is understanding that any sheep – plagued, damaged, and surrounded by wolves and lions – will struggle to keep going. Meanwhile what do we think WE are still in this world for? We are His hands and feet, our place in this world is to take kindness and compassion to those who suffer. Whether they are Christian or not. Faith fades when you are in pain. Many battles are too much for us – we need help from those around us.

I have often said: “I cannot cope Lord.” And I have seen the Lord deliver me so many times I can’t count them … but I don’t always whistle a happy tune…sometimes I bawl my eyes out.  He gently holds my hand either way. Showing caring compassion is the very least we can do for each other. Bye. 😭

P 2172 Beauty for Ashes.

/ DVH

The bible says that God wants to give us something incredible through all the discomfort, sorrow, pain, suffering and difficulties in our lives. Here’s a question for you. How can God give us beauty for ashes … without us having ASHES first?  Bad things happen to all of us. The problem is, especially in the Western world, we think of hard and difficult things as something to be avoided – or perhaps that the Lord is punishing us for something or other. Almighty God does not see suffering etc like that – He sees suffering as a doorway to something new – as an opportunity to trust Him more deeply,

Isaiah 53:10 says:“But it was the LORD’s GOOD PLAN…” (in some versions it actually says good pleasure) “… to crush Him (Jesus) and cause Him grief. Yet when His life is made an offering for sin, He will have many descendants. He will enjoy a long life, and the LORD’s good plan will prosper in His hands.”  It is very easy to think, how can a loving Father be pleased to hurt His precious Son so badly? Because something far greater was going to come from what happened to the Lord Jesus…WE WERE. Father God went froman ONLY Son to MANY sons and daughters.  And it was all part of His very GOOD plan. 🤔

Sometimes what Almighty God says in the bible seems tough and it can hurt us, but He hurts us to heal us. There is such a thing as good pain. Like the pain you get when exercising something that has been damaged – it hurts initially, but done correctly, it will help the injury heal. “Blessed is the one whom God corrects; so do not despise the discipline of the Almighty. For He wounds, but He also binds up; He injures, but His hands also heal. …” Job 5:17&18. “Come, let us return to the Lord. For He has torn us, but He will heal us; He has wounded us, but He will bandage us.” Hosea 11:3. 

I am not saying that if something terrible happens to us we should rush about cheering. Although… the Apostle Paul DID actually say that in Romans 5:3-5: “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.”  

Remember, we always need the Holy Spirit to help us read His book, because …… THE HOLY SPIRIT SPEAKS OUR GOD’S LANGUAGE! He knows Father God’s Ways and He speaks the Father’s language. And, most of the time, human beings don’t. We speak man. And mankind can only see what is of benefit to itself – our Heavenly Father sees what benefits the WORLD – even the people we don’t like!

Despite how things may look outwardly, our Heavenly Father loves us all very dearly.  We need to regularly pause, and deliberately reinforce the truth when life gets dark. Living using our faith can be difficult when this world presses in on us. It takes courage to get up again, and face this life and the stuff it throws at people. It’s a “coming ready or not” kind of world at this moment, and most of the time none of us feel ready for what turns up next! 

It may seem like you are carefully trying to build something worthwhile, and then someone else walks past and kicks everything over! And now you have to forgive that person who hurt you. Personally, at times like that, my biggest problem is that my feelings are jumping up and down. But our God doesn’t love us because you or I feel like it. He loves us because it is His nature to love and His nature does not change … EVER. This life is about HIM. His good plans, not just us. It can help to remember how much He loves us. This life is about us learning to trust in His reliability, His Word, His promises, and that can be tough in the middle of terrible hardship. But that is what faith does – faith stands up, when it really wants to fall down.

If we want to see His beauty in the midst of this life’s ashes we must reconcile within ourselves that it will be costly. To start with, it will cost us the right to wallow in hate, self-pity and complaining. It will cost us the effort it takes to discipline ourselves to look at trouble through His eyes. Plus, we will have to pray when we definitely don’t feel like it – and believe in Him when everything inside says: you are wasting your time – God has given up on you and your situation! Trust me – He hasn’t! He just has a bigger plan than we can see. This world needs our faith in His wonderful character. Our faith is in the One Who deliberately came and died to reconcile us back to our Father.

The Lord Jesus wants to give us His incredible beauty in the middle of the overwhelming ashes that threaten to swallow each one of us up. The physical, mental and emotional stuff that the enemy uses to torment us. Remember, the beauty we find, is IN WHO HE is – it is not our circumstances. May the Lord grant you the courage to find Him in the hardships you are experiencing today, may you experience His love and kindness when your world keeps throwing ashes at you. Amen. 👋🏻