P 2291 Speaking of maps…

The bible shows us where we’ve been, and even more importantly –  it show us where we are going! Like any other instructional book/map, it is not useful unless we read it and then carefully take its directions as instructions for how to get there! Unfortunately, sometimes there is only one viable route to some destinations. 

I’m a big fan of paper maps. Google Maps and I have an awful lot of trouble with each other. Sometimes Google is totally inaccurate and hopelessly out of date. However I do enjoy the task of being a navigator. Hubby drives and I read the maps. Basically, I have no problems at all with paper maps. Well, maybe sometimes I have a problem with the fact that the map seems to disappear into the dent between two pages, but aside from that I kind of like them. 

Google and I however, will never be friends. We do not seem to be compatible. We’ve christened our GPS Betty, and Betty and I go to war, mainly because Betty is relentless and insistent and often utterly wrong. Her idea is to get us where we’re going as quickly as possible … never mind the fact that you end up weaving in and out through teeny tiny streets in big cities, because BETTY thinks it’s shorter. 

She’s also not good at identifying when a new road has been built, so you end up flying because she has no knowledge of any updates to the roads. Our pal Betty hates flying. So she demands – translate that into …NAGS INCESSANTLY – that we leave the road we are on and turn around immediately and go in the other direction. I totally dislike computers telling me what to do. They are supposed to be an AID, and Betty is bossy. I don’t do bossy, especially when I’m smarter than the stupid computer chip. 

At the same time I often use dictation when I’m writing my blog, and that ends badly as well. Apparently the computer dictation microphone does not speak my actual language. Actually, I’m not sure it speaks anyone’s language really, because what it types never makes any sense. I can get quite cranky when I’ve gone to all the trouble of dictating and what it appears on the page is totally irrational, grammatically insane, plus irritating to boot! Add to that the fact that I forget what I said 10 seconds ago, this doesn’t make me a very happy camper. 

Unfortunately, people with one functioning arm have limited choices. Hubby very obligingly types for me sometimes, but as I speak at the speed of light that doesn’t always work out well either – he feels like he’s chasing a galloping runaway train – down hill! Oh well! 

Back to the bible being a road map …my point is that the thing with a map is to follow the directions. And it’s the same when reading His book. Many people have become inordinately fond of choosing a destination without paying attention to the route! Here’s a word for ya – that won’t work when you are engaging with the Lord. Unlike Betty or my computer microphone – He really does know everything!

Let me explain… The Bible says stuff like ‘and all these things will be added on to you.’ But first it says – ‘seek first the kingdom of God!’ If you want the natty addition then you gotta start doing the seeking. Otherwise you will end up like our Betty, promising stuff she can’t deliver, because she’s not up to date with the manufacturer’s instructions. The Bible also says ‘God’s strength is made perfect in weak people.’ So in order to qualify for His strength you have to admit you’re a weak people!  I could go on, but you get the gist.

OK, I lied, last one …23rd Psalm – in order to walk with Jesus, the Good Shepherd, through the valley of the shadow of death, as well as fearing no evil, our own feet get to be involved. It does not say we will magically be transported. No, indeed! We get to actually walk through that dreadful vale. However He promises He will be there with us. I check on that fact by asking; ‘are You there Lord?’ – when the ceiling just fell in. It’s the same with that super duper table prepared for us to eat from … you and I gotta eat with our enemies glaring at us! A lot of what Jesus tells us is conditional. Way too many people try to get the prize without meeting the qualifications!

And like Betty our GPS, or the dictation button on the computer … there has to be a level of understanding of the truth if we want to get to our destination. The bible is not a catalogue of things we can pick and choose from. Instead it is a roadmap to show us how to qualify for the things our loving Father has planned for us. HIS TERMS NOT OURS. Catch you later !! 👋🏻

P 2127 The third side!

Joshua 5:13 “Now when Joshua was near Jericho, he looked up and saw a man standing in front of him with a drawn sword in his hand. Joshua went up to him and asked, “Are you for us or for our enemies?”  As you can see even Joshua was confused about exactly who was on WHAT side – it can happen to anyone.

That angel/person standing in front of Joshua did actually have a sword and Joshua was a fightin’/praying man ever ready to spring into action. Meanwhile, at that particular moment he desperately needed to know who was on his side and who he was supposed to fight! We can learn a great lesson from good old Joshua. Sometimes, as Jesus Himself told us: “A man’s enemies will be those of his own household.”  The people we love the most, have the inside track to our hearts, and therefore they can hurt us like no-one else can … by jumping up and down on our hearts! We need God’s wisdom to pick our moments.

The bible mentions enemies many times and it is fair to say that we could easily have people in our lives who hate us … accidentally, or, on purpose! Even family etc. and this can cause what I call a spiritual compound fracture. These compound fractures can be hard to heal. The best healing method ever, is the oil of the Holy Spirit poured in, and then ‘ask, and keep on asking ‘(!) for God’s gift of supernatural love for the perpetrator. When people are mean, I’ve found that you can run out of human love pretty quickly! I’d start by blessing the people responsible for deeply wounding you and I wouldn’t stop … until they do!

We need to reconcile in our hearts that we also learn about God’s love, desires, and purposes, as well as stuff about ourselves, because of difficult people. Difficult people and their criticism hold up a mirror and show us what’s really on the inside. Well, goodie goodie gumdrops! 🍬The Lord Himself does not take sides, like Joshua shows us, because … HE IS ON HIS OWN SIDE. Ergo, we need to find His side and stay there! Personally whether I am right or wrong, I just say ‘sorry’ – it saves time. Sometimes, I don’t even wait to calm down. Then I deal with my feelings with Him afterward. He can fix anything even my stinky attitudes.

After I bawl my eyes out for a while and I forgive whoever it is … PS hubby does that way faster than I do and that is sooooo annoying! 😶 Then I pray and ask the Lord if there was any truth in the other person’s accusation. That’s when He very gently takes my tightly clenched fist – which was totally ready to punch them on the nose 😱  …and He explains that I am not perfected, just yet … And maybe we could fix what the other person brought up? I often have to think about that for a while. 🙄 Our God corrects us because He loves us dearly, and that right there … is an even bigger thought!  Whatever! Enemies are really useful people. They keep us on our spiritual toes. When someone is attacking you, suddenly a whole lot of things become clearer. And they often expose the very things inside us that we are hiding from ourselves.

The sad fact is that the people who act like enemies probably don’t  understand us, or they have some preconceived idea of what we should be like. They think they have their own very good reasons. If we do not take God’s side, His POV, in these situations … we can end up polarising our own thoughts, to prove to ourselves, that our ideas, actions, attitudes are right, and the other person is wrong! Here is a word of caution, remember, we can’t hear the Lord very well, when we are justifying ourselves. Peace is not a feeling – He is a Person. A Person Who will leave when we start justifying ourselves and judging others. When He leaves, wisdom and insight leave with Him.

Moving on.. the Apostle Paul had something he called “a thorn in his flesh,” Was he sick or disabled etc? I dunno! I actually think a person, or even a people group, can fit into the thorn in the flesh category too. After all people can hate others because of their nationalities – like anybody can help where we were born!? 😳 We simply must put aside the kind of thinking that categorises people into good people and bad people, and see ourselves, as well as others, as human beings who all need salvation and redemption! Love doesn’t categorise – it simply follows the Lord through the circumstances – to achieve HIS desired outcome.

His desired outcome does not always mean we will always have happy families or untroubled friendships etc. However, having people who don’t like us, provides us with an opportunity to see ourselves as others see us, and to check with the Lord about what to do with all that info! Difficult people reveal US to ourselves far more clearly than anything else and they do it by annoying the living daylights out of us!  🥳 yay. 

I want to conclude today by talking about Jonah. He is my go-to-guy about practically everything. I love THAT guy. He was so-oo-oo honest with God! The Lord tells him to go to Ninevah … and Jonah, with no hesitation, says: ‘no!’ He’s God’s prophet and he doesn’t even pray about it! Then he runs away in the opposite direction just to make his point. Meanwhile hiding from GOD in the bottom of a ship seems pretty D.U.M.B. stupid. 😳 But I adore the way the Lord used this man’s intentional disobedience to save a boatload of unredeemed sailors. THAT’S THE KIND OF GOD WE SERVE.

Which kind of proves my point today, we never know what the Lord will teach us about ourselves, through the people we don’t like. Or even what He will do for others while we are learning! His POV is the third side! 👋🏻